I have loved people passionately whom I wouldn't have slept with for anything, but I think that's something else. That's friendship -- love, which can be a tremendously passionate emotion, and it can be tender and involve a desire to hug or whatever. But it certainly doesn't mean you want to take off your clothes with that person. But certain friendships can be erotic. Oh, I think friendship is very erotic, but it isn't necessarily sexual. I think all my relationships are erotic: I can't imagine being fond of somebody I don't want to touch or hug, so therefore there's always an erotic aspect to some extent. Susan Sontag
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This quote talks about how a person can have a relationship with someone without ever going to bed with that person. When you have sex with someone, you are putting yourself in that person’s hands. You are giving them control over your body and your life. This is the kind of relationship that one can have when they do not have sex with another person.

Once sex is involved, it is over and you are given full control to the other person. In the case of this quote, when a woman has an erotic relationship with a man, it is only because the relationship in not sexual. However, in a sexual relationship, one would never be able to have a nonsexual relationship with their partner.

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